Monday, April 8, 2013

Leaving (exiting) home

The Manners of the Woman Leaving (exiting) home:

- The hijaab 

- Not using perfume

- A light walk, so that the (bing) noise of her shoes is not heard, Allah swt says: “…and let them not stamp their feet so as to reveal what they hide of their adornment.” [Suratun-Noor: 31]

- And if she walks with her sister and there are some men, she does not speak with her companion (i.e. her sister), and this does not mean that the woman’s voice is ‘awrah, but the men hearing the voice of the woman, it is possible that it could lead to fitnah.

- That she should ask for permission from her husband if she is married

- If she is going a distance which is considered traveling, she doesn’t exit except with a mahram

- Not mixing with men

- To be endowed with shyness

- To lower her gaze

- Not taking off her clothing in other than her house, if she means with that displaying (herself), verily it comes
on the Prophet (sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam) that he said, “any woman who takes off her clothes in other than her husband’s house, verily revealed (unveiled) the sutrah between her and her Lord”

By: Umm ‘Abdillah Al-Waadi’eeyah


The Manners Regarding Tabarruj: 

The Messenger of Allaah (may the peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "And the worst of your women are the ones who commit Tabarruj, who strut around in arrogance. They are the hypocrites. None from among them (i.e. these women) will enter Paradise except (those who are) like the rare crow." 

(Reported by al-Bayhaqi in his Sunan 7/82 and authenticated by al-Albanee in his as-Saheehah (4/1849)

Commenting on this hadeeth, Imaam al-Albaanee (rahimahu Allah) said: "What is meant by the rare crow is that which has a red beak and red legs, as occurs in a hadeeth that states the small amount of women that will enter Paradise. (The hadeeth Imaam al'Albaanee is referring to is the one by 'Amr bin al-Aas who said: "One day we were with the Messenger of Allaah on this mountain path when he said: "Look! Do you see anything? We said: We see a crow that is very strange. Its beak and its legs are red." So Allaah´s Messenger said: " No one among will enter Paradise except for those who have the similitude of this crow in strangeness."

'Ali r.a : 
"Tell me what is the most worthy act of a woman?"
Fatimah r.a: 
"A woman should not see any man nor should a man see her."
(Musnad al Bazzaar)

rabbi yassir wa laa tu'assir 

Friday, April 5, 2013

that lil boy

last sunday when my mom was sending our two lil 'schoolkids' to school, my lil bro ( who wasn't at all eager to be sent to school so early that particular day ) started his word-jokes again :

mother: panjangnya jam..
lil boy: yes! mak masuk je dlm jam tu ye? lama dah kita tak makan jem, strawberry jam.
mother: senyap2, mak nak fikir ni..
lil boy: ok, mak fikir lah masak-masak tapi ingat, jangan sampai hangus. 

hahaha oh my my my.